{"id":4538,"date":"2017-08-21T04:00:25","date_gmt":"2017-08-21T04:00:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/artiosmagazine.org\/?p=4538"},"modified":"2023-08-29T11:21:20","modified_gmt":"2023-08-29T17:21:20","slug":"jesus-tells-forgive","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/baonline.cog7engage.net\/jesus-tells-forgive\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Jesus Tells Us to Forgive Without Limit"},"content":{"rendered":"

I\u2019m going to let you in on a secret: being a Christian leader is hard. You\u2019re called to influence those around you for the sake of Christ? This is a tall order. Know what else is hard to do? Forgive. It\u2019s hard because sometimes forgiveness is attached to confrontation. These situations are especially hard for those who are introverts at heart. Yet, when God tugs at my heart, I cannot help but obey because I love Him and I love to please Him. Although leadership and forgiveness are difficult tasks in our own strength, thankfully His Spirit enables us to obey.<\/p>\n

I am an introvert, yet God has gifted me with the ability to encourage. Those two traits feel extremely opposite in my soul, but again, I obey. Obedience, this time, leads to telling the truth about myself even when it is hard for me. Because maybe, just maybe it will help others. So, here I go, prayerfully leading by example.<\/p>\n

Not Just Seventy times Seven<\/h3>\n

I have a relationship in my life that is hard\u2014really hard. Hard like concrete encased in titanium hard. This relationship, also happens to be with a family member, which makes that outer covering of titanium even more impenetrable. Recently, this person and I were having another bad time. Words were exchanged. Unfriending and blocking were involved. I really wanted to throw my hands up and just quit! It seems like no matter what I do or say, it is never enough. It\u2019s always wrong. Nothing is ever good enough. Even when I feel God has prompted me to do what needs to be done, nope not good enough. Over and over I am hurt by this relationship and its lack of healing.<\/p>\n

I was talking through my hurt with a close friend and this is how our conversation went:<\/p>\n

“It hurts too bad, it\u2019s never going to get better, why do I have to keep doing this?”<\/em><\/p>\n

“I\u2019m sorry.”<\/em> She\u2019s a friend of many words.<\/p>\n

Dripping in sarcasm, “Seriously, Jesus said 70×7. That\u2019s 490. [ref]https:\/\/hermeneutics.stackexchange.com\/questions\/2443\/why-is-there-numerical-ambiguity-in-matthew-1821-22 [\/ref] I\u2019m pretty sure I\u2019m at 489, so one more time and I get to be DONE. Woo Hoo!”<\/em><\/p>\n

Giggling,\u00a0<\/strong>“Ummm, that\u2019s not how that works.”<\/em><\/p>\n

“What?! God\u2019s a God of absolutes! Math is an absolute! 490.”<\/em><\/p>\n

“No.”<\/em><\/p>\n

Like me, do you try to apply human logic to God? Has it ever worked?<\/p>\n

Ever felt like this? Want to just toss a relationship away because it\u2019s too hard? Too messy? \u00a0It hurts too much?<\/p>\n

What if God said that about us? Because, I don\u2019t know about you, but I can be hard and very messy.<\/p>\n

Forgive Like Jesus Did (& Still Does)<\/h3>\n

So, what do we do with these hard, seemingly impossible relationships in life? We have to look to Jesus for our example. Half of the people he came into contact with were hard relationships. I mean really, one of his closest friends turned on him. And when was the last time someone wanted to kill you? Now those<\/em> were tough relationships.<\/p>\n

Forgiveness is the right thing to do though, right? Right. Even when it\u2019s hard and messy and you have to do it over and over. Even when you don\u2019t want to. And even when it hurts.<\/p>\n

In Luke 6:27-28 Jesus says,<\/p>\n

Say to you who hear, love<\/strong> your enemies, do good<\/strong> to those who hate you, bless<\/strong> those who curse you, and pray for<\/strong> those who spitefully use you.\u201d \u00a0(Emphasis added.)<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

See all that action? That\u2019s for the forgiver!<\/p>\n

Bless Like Jesus Did (& Still Does)<\/h3>\n

\u00a0Bless those who persecute you, bless and do not curse.\u201d –\u00a0Romans 12:14<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

But what about me you say? Well, in Matthew 5:7 Jesus says,\u00a0\u201cBlessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy.\u201d\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

And in Matthew 6:14 He says, \u201cFor if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

Forgiveness is hard. That\u2019s why it\u2019s a command. It goes against our flesh. That\u2019s why the command comes with the condition.<\/p>\n

[bctt tweet=”Forgiveness is hard. That’s why it’s a command. – Andrea Slawson”]<\/p>\n

When I forgive the person who has sinned against me, God forgives me for my own sin and heals me. That part is for me!<\/p>\n

But what about the person I\u2019m forgiving? That is where I come in. My petitions to God on behalf of that person will bring peace and truth to them.<\/p>\n

[bctt tweet=”Forgiving sets me free, blessing my enemy sets them free. – Andrea Slawson” username=”artiosmag”]<\/p>\n

Forgiving sets me free, blessing my enemy sets them free.<\/p>\n

Now what?<\/h3>\n

This relationship I have may always be hard and may always require my forgiveness. For God, I am willing to do this. If pleasing God is the only good thing that comes from this relationship, I have come to be content with that.<\/p>\n

It still saddens me that we, as God\u2019s children, cannot seem to get over ourselves and think more of our neighbor. Myself included. But, until the day when I get to stand in God\u2019s presence with this person and finally be reconciled, I will do what God needs me to do for and with this relationship. I will forgive and I will love through the hurt.<\/p>\n

Do you probably have a hard relationship in your life that you\u2019re thinking of right now? What will you do with it?<\/p>\n

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As you strive to become more like Jesus and pursue the reality of forgiving without limit, you can\u00a0become better equipped in your daily influence for Christ by taking advantage of the following resources:<\/p>\n