{"id":24804,"date":"2020-02-10T04:30:59","date_gmt":"2020-02-10T11:30:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/baonline.cog7engage.net\/?p=24804"},"modified":"2023-08-29T11:24:32","modified_gmt":"2023-08-29T17:24:32","slug":"how-do-we-foster-mental-wellness-among-christian-leaders-part-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/baonline.cog7engage.net\/how-do-we-foster-mental-wellness-among-christian-leaders-part-3\/","title":{"rendered":"How Do We Foster Mental Wellness Among Christian Leaders? Part 3"},"content":{"rendered":"
There are various ways that all of us, including our international brethren, can go about implementing plans of action to promote mental wellness among our congregations:<\/a><\/p>\n If after devoted prayer and a legitimate self-assessment the leader still experiences mental or emotional challenges, it should not be considered a sign of weakness or a lack of faith to seek professional assistance.<\/a> Outside consultation could reveal hidden factors such as fatigue, chemical disorders, or dietary deficiencies. It would also be helpful to confide in one or two trusted peers. It is comforting to be able to open up to someone who will not judge you and who has your best interest in mind. Other leaders understand because they might be dealing with some of the same issues. Therefore, a group of leaders helping other leaders can be a way to provide confidential support while at the same time holding each other accountable.<\/p>\n Depending on the results of the survey, leaders of the congregation can decide what steps to take next. Some suggestions are:<\/p>\n These are just a few ideas. The point is, follow through with the results of the survey and get the entire congregation involved. Some leaders are reluctant to take on new endeavors because they fear that they will have to do all the work. Delegate!<\/p>\n The main thing that the conference can do is support those leaders who want to include mental-health awareness in their ministry offerings. Pastors, ministers, and other leaders within COG7 should be able to seek assistance without fear of being judged or demeaned.<\/a> \u00a0An admission of the need for counseling for mental or emotional struggles can cause us to feel vulnerable. For that reason, the response to such admission should be one of understanding and encouragement.<\/p>\n Much is expected from Christian leaders; it should not be overlooked that we are all subject to failures, mistakes, and illnesses. The conference can assist in creating an atmosphere of trust, confidence, and openness by helping to pave the way for leaders to feel comfortable to admit to the need for counseling, and prayer, because of a mental or emotional struggle.<\/p>\n There are several verses in the Bible that imply illnesses are curses from God because of the sinful nature of man<\/a>, including Gen. 12:17; Exod. 15:26; and Deut. 7:12-16, 28:15-24 & 58 \u2013 60. Thus, for some Christians, the answer to helping those with mental and emotional problems is to tell them to get their life right with God. Then they may pray for them. Also, there are those who feel that seeking help for mental issues outside of the church body is a lack of faith, especially if it is from a secular provider.<\/p>\n During more than one of the workshops that I have attended over the past few years, I have talked to people who have left their church because of the way that they or a loved one were treated because of their mental illness. Two years ago I was speaking to a director of a small, local Bible college about people with depression. I was shocked when she said that they should \u201c\u2026just get over it\u2026.\u201d<\/p>\n If a congregant had cancer or a heart condition, yes, we would pray for them and offer counseling. Hopefully, we would not tell them that it is their fault because they are leading a sinful life, and they just need to get over it and get right with God. Why should assisting someone with a mental disorder be handled differently? If there is something going on that is not alleviated by prayer or spiritual counseling, we are committing a disservice by not offering outside reinforcement.<\/p>\n The study of the mind is complicated. If a congregation is not equipped to offer licensed or certified counseling or therapy, it should not be considered a failure, or a lack of faith in the healing powers of God to seek another source of professional consultation.<\/p>\n Ending the stigma of mental illness is not an easy task, but it must be done. Those of us who have taken on the mantle of Christian Leader<\/em> have the responsibility of leading others to Christ and caring for those who have already accepted Him.<\/a> We cannot do this if we are weak in body, spirit, or mind. Pastors, ministers and other leaders should be at the forefront of encouraging a mental-health ministry. We can no longer depend on the \u201coutside world\u201d to promote mental wellness. For some congregants, if they are unable to get assistance from the church, they are going to go right back to the streets.<\/a> If an issue is severe enough that it requires more attention than the church can provide, such as addictions, depression, chemical imbalance, or severe mental disorders, then certainly there should be resources available to make referrals.<\/p>\n This is not a call for churches to become treatment centers; it is an urging for leaders to recognize that mental and emotional health is no less important than physical or spiritual wellbeing. \u201c<\/em><\/strong>Christ-centered; Spirit-formed; Bible-based<\/em>.\u201d<\/em> This is our standard, our battle cry. It starts with the leaders to check ourselves first. We must not allow mental fatigue to be a breach in our armor as we prepare for the spiritual warfare ahead. \u201cTherefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God\u2019s mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God \u2013 this is your spiritual act of worship. Do not conform any longer to the to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God\u2019s will is \u2013 his good and perfect will.\u201d[<\/a><\/strong><\/a>3]<\/a><\/p>\n Still have questions about how you<\/strong> fit into Christian leadership? Check out these resources:<\/em><\/p>\n Want to dive even deeper into discovering your vocation? Download our free guide to Discovering Your Leadership Strengths<\/a> and consider taking Artios Christian College’s five-week introductory course, Essentials of Vibrant Leadership (LEA 111)<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n Notes<\/p>\n [1]<\/a> Scazzero, 34-35.<\/p>\nLeadership Assessment, Care and Accountability<\/h4>\n
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Outside consultation could reveal hidden factors<\/h3>\n
Congregation Assessment and Assistance<\/h4>\n
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Leaders of the congregation can decide what steps to take next<\/h3>\n
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Delegate!<\/h3>\n
[bctt tweet=”Each congregation is unique”]<\/h3>\n
General Conference Support<\/h4>\n
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Support those leaders who want to include mental-health awareness<\/h3>\n
[bctt tweet=”Much is expected from Christian leaders”]<\/h3>\n
Obstacles, Challenges, and Disagreements<\/h4>\n
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People have left their church because of the way they were treated<\/h3>\n
Why should assisting someone with a mental disorder be handled differently?<\/h3>\n
The study of the mind is complicated.<\/h3>\n
Ending the stigma of mental illness is not an easy task<\/h3>\n
[bctt tweet=”It starts with the leaders to check ourselves first”]<\/h3>\n
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