Acceptance & Advocacy<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\nThe embrace of the broken is the heart of the gospel. When Jesus began His ministry he specified his purpose: bring good news to the poor, freedom to captives, healing to the sick, liberty for those oppressed and God\u2019s grace extended toward all.[ref]Luke 4:18-19.[\/ref]\u00a0This was Jesus\u2019 consistent message and mission: embracing the hurting and helpless. He sought out the suffering and marginalized, the social outcasts and lost causes.<\/p>\n
If we\u2019re going to follow Jesus, we must follow him in accepting those who are hurting.<\/p>\n
Those suffering from mental health concerns need communities that accept and walk alongside them on the pathway to health and wholeness. Just as Jesus loved, accepted and embraced us while we were broken, we are called to love, accept and embrace others in their brokenness. Acceptance<\/b> opens the door to help and healing.<\/p>\n
But acceptance is not passive. Just as God doesn\u2019t accept us and leave us broken, we should not simply accept someone and then stand by watching them suffer. Acceptance is about love and love is active. People suffering from mental health problems need an advocate to come alongside them to speak and act on their behalf. Advocacy<\/b> comes in various forms.<\/p>\n
First, advocacy is demonstrated through understanding their struggle and communicating with them in a loving way. This requires that we educate ourselves about mental health concerns and commit ourselves to speaking the truth in love.<\/p>\n
Second, advocacy means speaking-out on their behalf. By informing others we invite more people into the support process. Those suffering from mental health concerns are often unable to speak for themselves. We need to become voices for the voiceless. This form of advocacy is also demonstrated through prayer. Just as Christ intercedes for us, so we should intercede for those who suffer.<\/p>\n
Third, advocacy is shown through connecting people with resources they need. For those suffering from mental health problems this may simply be a support community, but it may also be counselors or medical professionals including psychologists and psychiatrists. Once these connections are made, continued advocacy is often necessary to support them in necessary lifestyle changes.<\/p>\n
Advocacy is all about bearing each other\u2019s burdens, and thus fulfilling Christ\u2019s law of love.[ref]Galatians 6:2.[\/ref]\u00a0It\u2019s about acknowledging that none of us are independent and we rely on others to survive and thrive.<\/p>\n
\n- Compassion & Care<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
Compassion<\/b> literally means \u201cto suffer with\/alongside\u201d. God calls us to weep with those who weep.[ref]Romans 12:15.[\/ref]\u00a0People suffering from mental health concerns need others to enter their world and experience the pain they\u2019re feeling. In this shared experience of pain we\u2019re reminded to be careful and sensitive and we are filled with an urgency to find hope and healing. Like acceptance, compassion is not passive.<\/p>\n
Sincere compassion leads to comfort and consolation of those who are hurting. Our own experience of pain has a purpose. The purpose is that as we experience God\u2019s comfort, we\u2019ll be able to share comfort with others who are hurting.[ref]1 Corinthians 1:3-4.[\/ref]\u00a0Our process of healing empowers us to be, \u201charmonious, sympathetic, brotherly, kindhearted, and humble in spirit.\u201d[ref]1 Peter 3:8.[\/ref]<\/p>\n
Compassion is demonstrated through care. Care<\/b> takes many forms, but the more practical, the better. Sometimes we\u2019re intimidated by caring for those with mental health concerns because we feel inadequate or overwhelmed. But remember, you\u2019re not responsible for the comprehensive care of your friend. You\u2019re responsible for \u201cfriendship care\u201d, i.e. the care that friends give each other. Friendship care for the mentally ill usually takes the form of activities like providing a ride, cutting the grass, assisting with financial needs, or providing a listening ear. Small things matter and they make a big difference.<\/p>\n\n- Talk & Teamwork<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
Communication is key to any relationship. Through communication we understand one another. Through communication we give strength and encouragement. Communication<\/b> should be a conduit for God\u2019s grace.[ref]Ephesians 4:29.[\/ref]\u00a0Sometimes this communication comes in everyday conversation. Other times it comes through Bible study, support groups, or professional talk therapy.<\/p>\n
Through communication we discover how to be a part of a team that serves those suffering from mental health concerns and how to include them in teams that serve others. By teamwork<\/b> we mean two interconnected things. Within the Body of Christ we are all called to minister and be ministered to. God has created us to be interdependent upon one another. Every Christian has something that other Christians need, but every Christian lacks something that other Christians provide.[ref]1 Corinthians 12.[\/ref]<\/p>\n
While those suffering from mental health concerns need teams of believers supporting and ministering to them, that is only half of the equation. The other half is that those suffering from mental health issues are gifted ministers as well. They need to be equipped as members of teams that demonstrate love to others. Teamwork is the dual process of ensuring that members of the church who suffer from mental health concerns are ministering and being ministered to.<\/p>\n
Churches can become healing communities for individuals suffering from mental health problems. This process begins by committing ourselves to a<\/b>cceptance, a<\/b>dvocacy, c<\/b>ompassion, c<\/b>are, t<\/b>alk and t<\/b>eamwork. May we ACT<\/b> like Christians in relationship with those who are brokenhearted.<\/p>\n